Coffee, no milk 2.

This is a midweek update on Coffe, no milk

Almost three weeks ago, I was standing outside the door of a bar with some friends. I suddenly saw mister No Milk heading towards the place. He was not alone. In a second I prepared myself for an uncomfortable meeting. I was aware I had no idea of how to behave or feel towards him and that made me feel a bit insecure. I really couldn't figure my standing point out, so I just smiled and let whatever was coming come to me.

When they finally arrived, he tapped my shoulder and said hello. I turned around, appeared to be surprised, and greeted him back. Then I saw his date and understood what had happened that fateful night. Me, I had already passed puberty and was therefore not his type.

He didn't acquaint me with the kiddie. He probably didn't know how to introduce the anklebiter to me, or me to the him. Or both. After some superficial chatter, they entered the bar.

They stayed for a very short while. I guess he didn't feel very comfortable. For some reason this guy seems to feel awkward pretty often. Even the company of his little suckling couldn't help him feel at ease.

We succintly said goodbye, and I forgot about him for the rest of the night.

As I posted, after our very first meeting I didn't hear from him again. But this incident at the bar made him start texting me.

And it got weirder and weirder with each message I got.

No Milk

“Hey, how r u doin?”

S

“I'm fine thanks. I thought you didn't want to talk to me ever again?”

No Milk

“Hello S.! Why did you think that? Because I didn't want sex? We already talked about it. Besides, we had a great time at the bar, right?. I have no idea why you think that. Everything ok by the way ?”

S

“Ow well, I just thought I had traumatized you. Everything fine here, by the way.”

No answer, it worked. I didn't want to stay in touch with him. But, 12 days later (30 september) ...

No Milk

“ Hi S. How are you? Do you still know who I am ? We wanted to meet some time ago but I couldn't at the time. I'm in a city close to yours, so if you have time we could meet the afternoon? Let me know. xoxo”

I didn't understand anything. I didn't even know what to think about it. Was he doing as if nothing ever happened ? Hard to believe. Did he send it to the wrong number?. The name and city were correct.

I didn't think about it for long, for I found it unworthy, but I was puzzled.

One hour later...

No Milk

“Are you a top?”

...

First of all: is he blind?

But besides, after the story we had he comes up with a text message asking me about my sexual preferences. Was he testing me? Desperate?. I didn't answer to this message either, hoping he would get the message. And still, two hours later...

(Now I'm looking at the messages and see he only wrote sms every 15 over an hour. What's behind that I wonder now?)

No Milk

“ I DID remember you weren't a top, but I was fishing for a reaction because I would like to see you during nightlife again. 17 okt?”

What can I say? It doesn't even make sense. If I already wasn't in him, now I wanted to keep him far. So I undertook action to make things clear.

S

“Hey, I'm sorry. I find this whole thing you're doing weird. If I ever meet you at a club, that's fine with me, but stop texting. S.”

He hasn't answered.

I totally don't understand what he's all about. I do know he got the wrong guy for these games.

Does he really think I care enough about him to play along?

I had this idea that he didn't like me because I wasn't young enough, like the neonate he went to the bar with was. This text message history proves it wrong though, and now I'm out of theories. At least one of my readers send me his own about what happened but I wonder if he thinks the same after reading this.